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The Best Great Barrier Reef & Neurodivergent Families
We got maybe five hours of sleep. Glass bottle. Police. Midnight move. Two kids transferred to new beds in the dark. If you read Part 3 you know. If you didn't — go read Part 3. The point is: we woke up exhausted, made breakfast in our new unit because that's what you do when you have a kid with ARFID and a kitchen, got on a shuttle, and headed into the oldest rainforest on Earth. No big deal. The Daintree: Older Than You Can Actually Comprehend The Daintree Rainforest predat
Stephanie Fluger
Apr 106 min read


Barramundi Fishing to a Broken Window
After two back-to-back reef days in Cairns — stinger suits, paddle boards, murky water, rain — we needed somewhere that wasn't trying so hard. Port Douglas is a small town. Four Mile Beach at your doorstep. Rainforest thirty minutes north. The kind of place where the pace just drops without you having to ask it to. We drove up from Cairns — about an hour along the coast — and took a detour on the way. Thirty minutes west to Barron Falls. Which almost didn't happen. Barron Fal
Stephanie Fluger
Apr 64 min read


Australia: Cairns Experience: Frankland Islands, Fitzroy Island,
Sydney was the soft landing. Cairns was the reason we came. There's a shift that happens when you leave a city and land somewhere that exists entirely because of what's in the water. Cairns isn't trying to be cosmopolitan. It's a gateway town — warm, tropical, and completely oriented around the reef. The moment we stepped off the plane the air felt different. Heavier. Greener. Like the whole atmosphere was reminding you that you were somewhere genuinely wild. We had one domes
Stephanie Fluger
Apr 55 min read


How we got to Australia
Airport Prep, Accessibility Hacks & First Days in Sydney Taking your child internationally is a different kind of decision when you have a neurodivergent kid. It's not just "will they have fun." It's "have I thought through every transition, every sensory moment, every point where his nervous system might hit a wall — and we're on the other side of the planet." Australia was always on the list. The reef. The rainforest. The wildlife my son had already memorized through every
Stephanie Fluger
Mar 174 min read


Los Angeles: An Honest Guide to What's Worth It
LA Summary of all our experience
Stephanie Fluger
Feb 187 min read


Disneyland with a Neurodivergent Kid
We've done Disneyland through every phase — clueless and exhausted, newly diagnosed and terrified, pandemic-era stripped-down visits, and now with years of knowing exactly what my son needs before he needs it. It's still not perfect. There are still hard days. There are still moments where I'm standing in a return line watching his body language and doing the math on how much runway we have left. But he goes on Smuggler's Run now. Every single time. And watching him grab thos
Stephanie Fluger
Feb 17 min read


Xplor Day
Welcome to Day 4. Are you tired of me complaining? Because I’m tired of me complaining. So, in the spirit of transparency—because I want to be true to my experience—here’s the reality: the service never got better. It was a continual disappointment, and if you’re coming here looking specifically for luxury service, this location is not worth the expense. That said… we’re still here.So let’s move on.…sort of. Today, we planned to go to Xplor. This park is all about zip lining
Stephanie Fluger
Jan 103 min read


Resetting Expectations
Good Morning! Yesterday was interesting, but it’s a brand-new vacation—and this is supposed to be the #1 luxury service resort in the entire country. So I decided to reset and enjoy the vacation. Maybe last night was just a hard night: too many angry guests, too many late check-ins. I’ve been there. In a past life, I worked front desk and concierge at Disney’s Grand Californian. I know how these nights go. So I made a choice. I wasn’t going to miss out on fun just to complain
Stephanie Fluger
Jan 55 min read


Hotel Xcaret Mexico
Hotel Xcaret Mexico is marketed as an all-inclusive luxury resort. On December 12th, my husband and I realized we needed to get out of dodge. Normally, winter break means Mammoth. But between the lack of snow, how unusually warm it’s been, and a three-day winter storm rolling in, Mammoth quickly became a no-go. So we started brainstorming. 🚗 Carlsbad Tavern. ✈️ Japan. 🐨 Australia. 🛩️ Austin, TX. All great ideas. All terrible ideas right now. Every option required real pla
Stephanie Fluger
Dec 31, 20254 min read


Catalina Glamping
Living in California means Catalina Island feels almost casual. It’s technically a getaway, but it’s also just… right there. Off the coast. Close enough that on a clear day you can see it and think, “We should go.” And so we did. Most people take the Catalina Flyer and then hop on a shuttle boat to White’s Landing. We happen to have a boat that can make the two-hour trip ourselves — in our smaller boat, which makes the word “adventure” feel slightly more literal. Our son LOVE
Stephanie Fluger
Sep 20, 20254 min read


Arrival day @ Alaska
We stepped off the seaplane and onto the low-tide beach at Tutka Bay—slick rocks underfoot, little tide pools glinting in the sun, and that unmistakable smell of ocean and wildness. We didn’t even have time to take it in. Within seconds—seconds—one of my kids was holding a starfish the size of his face. That’s how quickly this place lets you know: you’re not in Kansas anymore. Right away, we met Mak—our guide for the week and the kind of person you instantly trust with both y
Stephanie Fluger
Jul 6, 20254 min read


Alaska: Travel Day
Traveling with an autistic child? Here’s how we navigated TSA, pre-boarding, sleep struggles, and a seaplane to Alaska — with sensory strategies, real talk, and zero sugarcoating.
Stephanie Fluger
Jul 5, 20254 min read


Business Class & Accessibility
The first time we took our kids on an international flight in business class, I was nervous. Not because of the flight itself, but because I wondered if it was too much . Would people side-eye us for having young kids in first class? Would it even be worth it? Let me tell you— zero regrets . When you’re traveling with a neurodivergent child, especially one with sensory sensitivities and rigidity around routines, the journey matters just as much as the destination. The hustle
Stephanie Fluger
Mar 16, 20252 min read


Why Luxury Travel is the Secret for Families Like Ours
These two are not the same. I used to believe luxury travel wasn’t for families like mine. Not because we couldn’t appreciate it - but...
Stephanie Fluger
Mar 16, 20252 min read


Lost Myself & Found My Way Back Through Travel
When my son was diagnosed with autism my world changed. Days filled with therapies & research. I didn’t just lose travel; I lost myself.
Stephanie Fluger
Mar 15, 20252 min read


Stargazing in Death Valley
This is one of my favorite trips we’ve ever taken. Not because of service. Not because of luxury. But because it was designed around exactly what my son loves. We dry camped outside of Trona with the Eastern Sierra Observatory — a volunteer group that brings out massive telescopes and lets you look at the universe like you’re in a college astronomy lab. But first, sleep. I have a hard no when it comes to building tents. I can sleep on the ground. I can handle dirt. I can ha
Stephanie Fluger
Dec 13, 20233 min read


The Ranch at Death Valley
This was our first overnight trip after my son’s diagnosis. Not our first outing. We had done Disneyland. We had attempted the zoo. We had tried an aquarium. Even Mammoth — though Mammoth doesn’t really count for us (separate story entirely). But we had never packed up, slept somewhere new, and stayed. And to say I was terrified would be accurate. Living in Orange County means we’re lucky. I can drive almost anywhere. So I packed like someone preparing for relocation. The car
Stephanie Fluger
Apr 29, 20223 min read
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